I will tell my two worst days though but they are pretty mild. I went to go see this new male client, hour and a half train ride to him, he was then 30 min late picking me up and on the way to his place he tells me that I have to sneak into his house because his family members are asleep. I tell him to get undressed and lay on his back to start the massage which is what we talked about before hand. He says no he wants to give me the massage and do all this stuff to me. I was already pissed about the train ride and him being late and him changing plans all of a sudden really got me angry.
Though now I was far away from the train station and very far from home… It was a long trip back. The second experience that was crappy was with an old regular of mine. He was always a really nice, respectful and helpful guy.
He had been there for me a couple times when I needed help and I thought of him as a good friend. One day we made plans for him to pick me up at 10 in the morning and go to breakfast. He shows up at 7 A. At this point I am so sleepy and getting more pissy by the second. I tell him with just a slight edge on my voice to give me some space while I get dressed.
Which he does for about a minuet.
As soon as I sit on the bed to put my shoes on he walks up to me and thrusts his pelvic region right in my face. I got up very quickly and shoved him hard enough that he flew back and knocked up my TV. He looked like he was about to cry and I just said you have to go now. Not much of a story I know. I do have a sex life outside or work. My sex drive would be a bit dampened if I had been with a female client but still I always made sure to love her like she was the only one.
It certainly helped that most are not traditionally attractive and none even close to how pretty she was. And yes sex outside of work is still enjoyable. If it ever became different then a lifestyle change is an order. A positive, exciting and healthy sexual relationship is absolutely key to maintaining a relationship. Yeah, I have countless rules.
Yea there are a couple that I always have a lot of fun with. Particularly this MILF …she is wild.
Sex with a normal partner is still exciting for me. That is very simplified btw. There are certainly other risks and other rewards. To me I enjoy the work mostly and will continue to do it til I find something better I imagine. I had a male client who picked me up and by the time we had driven two miles he creeped me out so much I got out of his truck at a stoplight and just walked away. If they can see your face, especially your eyes, they are more likely to contact you. However, and for all sorts of reasons, many escorts cannot be so out. I suggest that those escorts try to be more personable with each client they meet and maintain a long-term repeat relationship.
There are benefits to being in hiding. If you have any qualms about being stigmatized or harmed, then this might be the best route for you.
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Many escorts have various life situations that require this level of discretion. Most are still very successful. The most important rule of all is to be you. Do not try to be something you are not. Save that for your porn career. You can maintain good boundaries, and in some circumstances, keeping parts of your personal life private is a wise policy.
Be honest about your likes and dislikes.
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There is a broad range of fetish likes and dislikes. Imagine being with a client in a highly sensitive role play scene that is his very personal sexual turn on. Your reaction can be healing or hurtful. Be caring and considerate, especially with kink and fetish clients. I believe common sense is your best friend here. Yes, you may work a week and make a large sum of money and it will be mostly in cash. If you do not track your earnings and manage them wisely, as with any profession, you will not feel good about your success.
In the beginning I bought stuff like a kid in a candy store. Thankfully, I also spent a great deal of time, energy, and especially money on promoting my business.
I hired other escorts to film videos with me to post online so I could drive more business to my website and my escort profiles on Rentmen and other sites. I frequently boost my ads for premium advertisement placement on escort websites because I know that exposure equals income for the future. I used to save all my cash in a hole in the wall in my tiny apartment.
At one point I had thousands of dollars and no way to declare it for my taxes. Depending on where you live, not declaring income is a huge red flag and can land you in heaps of trouble. I began making deposits into my bank account on a regular basis and declared my income the best I could. Tax laws in every country are different, but being responsible is important. I know guys that log every penny made and take notes about every penny spent. There are apps or programs you can download to help you with your finances.
I use Turbo-Tax and it is very automated. The one thing I do not do is make claims or deductions for crazy or uncommon things like travel expenses and clothes. While you want to be exciting and enticing as an escort, you want to be boring and forgettable as a tax payer. You make your living with your body, how do you take care of it? I have no opinion about personal recreational drug use, but I caution you to be very mindful about how tempting it is to get high with clients chem-sex or partying.
My experience has shown me that there are far more long-term clients who do not partake in drug use than there are that do. I believe moderation is the key for most people. These days, I take time for myself. I go out and play. I spend lots of time with my dogs and my partners just hanging out. I scuba dive, free dive, dance at clubs and, yes, I have sex with others for myself. I have to take care of myself. So, I get out there and enjoy life.